My teeth are so bad that I fear I’ll need to get dentures. The worst part is that I’m not even 30 years old. I thought dentures were for grandparents.
My parents never took me to the dentist when I was growing up, unless there was a problem. As I got older and lived on my own, I started taking better care of my teeth and going to the dentist.
Unfortunately, the damage was done. My teeth are a mess. To make matters worse, I suffered from hyperemesis gravidarum with each one of my three pregnancies. I was literally sick for the entire time I was pregnant! This obviously didn’t help my teeth with all the vomiting.
I have been to a lot of different dentists to see what can be done and we have tried to salvage the teeth I have left. The amount of work required is so overwhelming though. So, I’ve sadly gotten to the point that I only go in when I am in pain. I am seriously considering having them all pulled and getting dentures.
When I went back in last week, the dentist made me feel like a failure. He lectured me on how I deserve what I’m dealing with now because I didn’t take care of my teeth growing up. I want to give up!
Am I doomed to dentures?
-Angie in Texas
Angie,
You are in a really tough spot and my heart goes out to you. Some dentists are really lacking in their chair-side manor. It sounds like you are trying to make your situation better and have had a really hard time with your oral health over the years. But, you should never be made to feel like you deserve it or that you’re a failure.
The next step for you is to find a dentist you can trust. If you have any teeth left that are salvageable, dentures should be an absolute last resort. At your age, you will be left with an entire lifetime of problems. This is because when your natural teeth are removed, your bone is resorbed to be used elsewhere in the body since it is not needed any longer to support the teeth. Facial collapse is the result of bone loss and if you get a denture at this age, you would be dealing with facial collapse in your forties. The denture will not fit well and your face will appear sunken in and you will look older than you are. Over the years, it will be extremely uncomfortable to keep a denture in.
This isn’t being said to scare you. It is the reality you will be faced with if you decide to get dentures.
The best thing you need to do is find a dentist that empathizes with your situation and understands you want to make it better. It may take some effort, but when you find a dentist you can trust, you will be able to evaluate your options. If you have teeth that are able to be saved, focus on them first. Even a partial denture or bridge will serve you better than giving up and pulling the teeth. Or the best case scenario for a tooth that is not salvageable is to get a dental implant because they stimulate the bone. This means that bone loss would be avoided where the implant was placed.
In extreme situations like yours, a phased treatment plan may work best. This will help identify and treat the urgent needs first and work through them steadily as time and your budget allow. Also, you may be able to work out some payment plans or financing options that can help you get more done at one time. You do have options!
Don’t give up! Set an example now of good oral health for your children, that you weren’t given growing up. Best of luck!
This post is sponsored by a dentist in York, PA, Donald H. Currie, DMD.